Infidelity - Susan Adams Licensed Marriage And Family Therapist

Can You Ever Trust A Cheater Again?

Susan Adams — Fri, 15 Oct 2021 11:57:33 +0000

It depends my clients ask me this all the time. There are different kinds of affairs. Some people are philanderers. Male philanderers have a better prognosis than female philanderers. Men cheat when they don’t feel good enough.The infidelity is really between a man and his father. I have had several huge successes with guys like […]

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Can a Marriage Go Back To Normal After Cheating?

Susan Adams — Wed, 15 Sep 2021 12:06:36 +0000

My experience is that even though infidelity is Not the fault of the partner, once the infidelity is discovered and the secrets exposed, couples progress to dealing with making the marriage far better than it was. In dealing with infidelity, everyone must change. However, the dynamics are different for men and women. Men cheat when […]

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Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them?

Susan Adams — Sun, 15 Aug 2021 12:42:21 +0000

Love and infidelity have nothing to do with each other. Men cheat when they don’t feel good enough. Women cheat when they are angry. Infidelity has NOTHING to do with the partner. It is the independent decision of the person who cheats. This issue is the most difficult one that partners are faced with understanding. […]

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Anger in Infidelity – But Don’t I Have a Right to My Anger?

Susan Adams — Tue, 18 Sep 2018 15:37:03 +0000

Recently a woman contacted me about her husband’s infidelity. They had been doing prior work with a female therapist who encouraged her anger. She told the husband that his wife was understandably angry and he must be patient as she spewed it out. Frankly, I found this to be very bad advice. Apparently, the couple […]

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How Can I Ever Trust Him/Her Again After Infidelity?

Susan Adams — Mon, 02 Jul 2018 19:53:27 +0000

People call me all the time to ask me: "My husband/wife has been unfaithful. How can I stay in the relationship after such a betrayal? I can never trust my partner again." There is definitely a life after infidelity. According to Dr. Frank Pittman (with whom I worked closely for twenty eight years), "Men cheat […]

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Dealing With Infidelity

Susan Adams — Tue, 18 Jul 2017 18:55:39 +0000

To acquaint readers with the nature of infidelity and how to handle it. Summary: Infidelity occurs in many but not all marriages. The marriage can be saved in many cases. This article identifies the kinds of infidelity which may occur and makes suggestions about how to handle the situation to best preserve the marriage. Kinds […]

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